my paternal grandfather and the millions he made in the 40s 50s and 60s ....somehow ...i always felt there was a curse on the huge compound with 4 bungalows ...4 of my uncles Never took up business ...one who took it up ..ran it aground ..with his Believing ways ....
however my grandad's brothers used him as a stepping stone ..to become big names in that very town ....in my mom's side too the extreme heights my maternal grandad and some of my cousins are on ...even now ....
made me see how much better life was in Pune ...where no one cursed anyone and people were practical and simple and extremely hard working ...
both sides of my parents family ...made me want a life of a middle class person ...away from being Known and in the limelight ....
sometimes an ordinary simple life is a blessing ....
sometimes the tragedy keeps going on ....two days back my cousin on my maternal side lost her only child ...an 18year old girl child who was doing her engineering .... both my cousin's parents are no more too ...my parents call them once in a while and they call my parents sometimes ...as my cousin and her siblings have no one to consult in some cases or sometimes it is to simply share...
this cousin was my childhood best friend and glass bangle buying partner in Kallada ..my mom's village.... younger than me by 2 years ....someone who was under complete bed rest for this girl child ...her child was her world ....her husband holds a very high public post in Kerala ... such terrible times for my cousin sister and her husband .....
all i can do is send them positive vibes and hope to meet her before i leave India ...
however my kids think very differently ...as luckily they have not seen Kerala and my elder child remembers nothing of the times in Assam
i see the Panicker spark to do business in my elder kid ..since he first sold his cricket attack cards at 8yrs of age ....and ...put an online adv for his beyblades during his computer class in Bishop's Pune ....and best part he gave my phone number as the contact number ....
and now his youtube company ...as he calls it ....